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Find Your Truth and Be At Peace With It Randi Buckley
 
 
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From tricky to truth, and icky to ease...

We're going to sit down, I'm going to look into your eyes, and we're going to find the truth inside of you. We're going to do what it takes so you feel deep peace with it.  We're going to find your words so that it sings with the elegance, kindness, and fierceness of an anthem.  You are going to feel the embrace of acceptance, smell the scent of self-respect, and the taste of liberation.  You are going to be heard.  In me, you'll get intuition, unconventional wisdom, mischief, sacred space to be you, and new ways of honoring who you are. Then I'll probably fall in love with you, like your trusted big sister, your cool aunt, or the medicine woman who lives at the edge of the woods.  Welcome.  Learn, work with me, or come away with me.  Either way, welcome!

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Let's grab some tea, hot chocolate, and deep, nourishing conversation under the night sky! Until then, let me send you my little book, Truth, Depth, and Beauty.  I'll also send occasional updates about the going-ons of my work and other things that might be helpful to you.

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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
FOR KIND PEOPLE COACH & FACILITATOR TRAINING

Want to know the underlying challenge of the people you coach, teach, lead, or mentor?  IT'S BOUNDARIES. HEALTHY BOUNDARIES!  
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“Randi is grease for life’s wheels. When I don’t know what to do, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships, I call her. She has a way of making the dance of being human just a little more graceful. Healthy Boundaries for Kind People is part of her natural medicine for the world and I can’t recommend her highly enough.”

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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

FOR COACHES AND FACILITATORS
 

 

Want to know the underlying challenge of the people you coach, teach, lead, or mentor?  

It's boundaries.  Healthy boundaries.

Are you working on this with your clients or those you teach, lead, or manage?

Think about it.  Everything starts and ends with boundaries. When we help to teach, support, and create healthy boundaries with our clients, our work has deeper and longer-lasting impact.  And even better... they thrive! 

Healthy Boundaries for Coaches and Facilitators by Randi Buckley
 
 
 
 
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Someone asked why they are great at honoring boundaries with others, but not so great at honoring boundaries with themselves. In case it's helpful, here's my quick take: I see this among people who feel like they have solid boundaries. And yes, I do have suggestions! In my mind, everything is an equation that has to be balanced, in order to make that thing true. So, if it's true on one side, i.e. healthy boundaries with others, it needs to hold true on the other side, healthy boundaries with yourself. But before that, in my coachey way, I'd ask what the pay off is, to you flaking on your own boundaries. And here's my intuitive sense: you don't feel like you deserve the same boundaries with yourself- you are not as worthy of them. It feels important to you to not have others think you are flaking out- my guess is so you feel respected by them, but you don't always do this for yourself. You might even "forget" these boundaries, right? Let's define "boundaries" as "respect". Now sweetheart, what will your self-respect offer you? And, are these boundaries respectful to you? Will they help you feel self-respect? Our boundaries with ourselves are often arbitrary; more like "shoulds". But let's look at them as "respect", "needs", and "values". Let's start there. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #boundaries #healthyboundaries
So many kind people want to offer someone the chance to show they are different and that things have changed with them. The want to believe, and experience, what they hope is possible in the behavior of the other person. So, being so kind, they let the person show up with hopes that they'll take this opportunity and show the world how they've changed. They want to be the one who didn't give up on somebody and be a believer in them. And then they are crushed. Disappointed, sad, hurt, and possibly even abused. This is not to say that someone might not change. But here's the deal: the onus is on them to do so. You can still embrace, make space for, and welcome their change- if it happens. But you cannot pull it out of them, even when you know what else is possible for them. Dropping or abandoning your boundaries would be like not wearing warm clothes in the winter in hopes that it will suddenly warm up. If it warms up, great- then put on the right clothes for the weather. Dance like crazy and celebrate. You can still hope for it and want it, but going out into the blizzard, naked, will likely get you burned. Even when you hope for sunshine, you must dress for the weather. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #boundaries #healthyboundaries #roots #avebury
Urban fox, London.
Healthy Boundaries for Kind People Coaches (and lovely friends) Meet-Up in London! If I do anything well, I gather incredible humans! @thejennypace Claire Mahon
The Roman Baths, Bath, UK.
Bourton-on-the-Water...fire in the sky. Cotswolds.
Potter!? Is that you, Potter?
Three Fairies.
It was suggested I pull this one of the archives, today. Donc:
After teary days, a sense of "off... way, way off", weeks of deep fatigue, and the now- chronic pain that has taken up residence the past two months, I noticed exhaustion makes its home in me with the same feeling as depression. But that wasn't quite it. A turning tide finally receeded today to reveal the new patterns in the sand. Mine. I see the next chapter and less metaphorically, why I haven't finished the book. And with that and the hope of a good rest, I am ready. And I am free.
 
 
 
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