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Find Your Truth and Be At Peace With It Randi Buckley
 
 
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From tricky to truth, and icky to ease...

We're going to sit down, I'm going to look into your eyes, and we're going to find the truth inside of you. We're going to do what it takes so you feel deep peace with it.  We're going to find your words so that it sings with the elegance, kindness, and fierceness of an anthem.  You are going to feel the embrace of acceptance, smell the scent of self-respect, and the taste of liberation.  You are going to be heard.  In me, you'll get intuition, unconventional wisdom, mischief, sacred space to be you, and new ways of honoring who you are. Then I'll probably fall in love with you, like your trusted big sister, your cool aunt, or the medicine woman who lives at the edge of the woods.  Welcome.  Learn, work with me, or come away with me.  Either way, welcome!

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Let's grab some tea, hot chocolate, and deep, nourishing conversation under the night sky! Until then, let me send you my little book, Truth, Depth, and Beauty.  I'll also send occasional updates about the going-ons of my work and other things that might be helpful to you.

Or... you can play "Two Truths and a Dare" with me!  You'll still get the book and the updates, but you'll also get to participate in my free year-long offering, a nearly-weekly riff on the slumber-party classic.  You can learn more about "Two Truths and a Dare", here.

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NEW- THE COACHING INTENSIVE

 You need deep, wise, compassionate, non-fluff support, coaching and guidance.  You want to put something behind you, be done with it, and to move on, NOW. 

One month, one big challenge + you and me + six coaching sessions = Radical Progress, if not Straight-up Resolution

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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
FOR KIND PEOPLE COACH & FACILITATOR TRAINING

Want to know the underlying challenge of the people you coach, teach, lead, or mentor?  IT'S BOUNDARIES. HEALTHY BOUNDARIES!  
This is my training program for coaches AND leaders, in my wildly celebrated and radically effective Healthy Boundaries for Kind People work.  Keen?  Check it out!
Now accepting applications!

 
 
 
 


“Randi is grease for life’s wheels. When I don’t know what to do, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships, I call her. She has a way of making the dance of being human just a little more graceful. Healthy Boundaries for Kind People is part of her natural medicine for the world and I can’t recommend her highly enough.”

Rachel W. Cole - Coach + Author, Well-fed Woman

 
 
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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

FOR COACHES AND FACILITATORS
 

 

Want to know the underlying challenge of the people you coach, teach, lead, or mentor?  

It's boundaries.  Healthy boundaries.

Are you working on this with your clients or those you teach, lead, or manage?

Think about it.  Everything starts and ends with boundaries. When we help to teach, support, and create healthy boundaries with our clients, our work has deeper and longer-lasting impact.  And even better... they thrive! 

Healthy Boundaries for Coaches and Facilitators by Randi Buckley
 
 
 
 
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Last two days if you'd like to grab the Early Bird for Healthy Boundaries for Kind People. If not, bon weekend! https://www.randibuckley.com/healthy-boundaries-for-kind-people link in bio. #boundaries #healthyboundariesforkindpeople
Thank you, Traci!
There is a way of thinking that the avoidance of "conflict" will lead to harmony and peace, making the false equivalency that avoiding conflict= harmony and peace. #boundaries #healthyboundariesforkindpeople
It is not "selfish" to not want to have children. It is not "selfish" to want to have children. Selfish is thinking people are selfish for doing what is right and true for them. Selfish is thinking people should do what is right and true for you. Popped up in my "memories" today. I'm so glad I still get to do the "Maybe Baby" work.
Huevos Rancheros. @cremapg
I'm crap at marketing but really (really) good at a few other things. Namely, my course Healthy Boundaries for Kind People! It's for folks who struggle with having (or even feel worthy of) healthy boundaries. It's not the conventional (and often ineffectual) wisdom about boundaries... because that stuff does NOT work for kind folks. And by kind, I'm talking those of us who value compassion, justice, and are less thrilled with confrontation and people pleasing, even if you don't think yourself especially kind. The course is LIVE- not a self-study and the amount of support I offer is substantial. I even have three teaching assistants (extrodinaire) this year! We start September 5th. I'm not only crap at marketing, but also at admin, too! (Yay, me!) This means that I haven't checked to see if I've maxed out the early-bird enrollment, which makes the course $150 off! So, I'll put it at full price as soon as we've hit that mark... and I check it but until then, get it like it's hot. Because it is! (This is different from Healthy Boundaries for Business AND is a prerequisite to HBfKP Coach and Facilitator Certification.) Questions? Let me know! The group we have enrolling is absolutely wonderful and if you feel this is for you, I'd love to have you do this. Link in bio. #boundaries #healthyboundariesforkindpeople
We are officially Harry Potter nerds.
I used to agonize and punish myself, indefinitely, for my screw ups. Like if I suffered and sabotaged myself enough, it would eventually make up for it. As if it were the moral and righteous thing to do. If someone were on the other end of my screw up, I resigned my right to happiness, peace, or moving beyond it. I stayed in that space indefinitely, feeling the shame and pain of it all. It wasn't martyrdom for their sake, but throwing ourselves on a sword of shame for our own, often unknown to anyone else. Well this does nothing for anyone, except offers a small, early death to a part of us. It does not change the situation, but keeps us suspended in it, narcissistically. It does nothing for others when we stay down or writhe in our own pain. It does not advance humanity and it does not serve other people. It's not repentance. It is the exact opposite of making it right. So what do I do now (or remind myself to do)? I get up. Right away. I dust off my hands and know that the greatest way I can make it right, is to not give up on myself, nor think so little of others that they could only accept me as a failure. That is selling other people short and not seeing the deep good and compassion in them. We owe no one our suffering. So if you are there, and think you must stay down, as you don't deserve to get up, or that you owe it to others to not, I ask you to stand up and keep moving. Your (or my) staying down serves no one. Get up. And know this is welcome and the very thing that makes it right.
The new shirt, Context, Nuance, Discernment, is ready to go and in my boutique! Enjoy! Link in bio.
"But look at all I've sacrificed... I don't want it to become a waste." Often I hear that someone feels that it might be best to leave their relationship/grad program/job/project/something you made big changes and/or a financial commitment for... but they sacrificed so much and they don't want that sacrifice to be for nothing. And so they stay. Stay in something that isn't right, whether it was not quite what they had in mind, or downright detrimental. So, they continue to sacrifice. But now it is a sacrifice of truth, ease, and of the future. Most all things will have times of doubt and times of challenge. Those are times to take a look at things and recalibrate. Life is a river, and the navigation will always require different things from you. But if recalibration leaves you with a continued sense of "this is not right for me... and will not become right for me", listen. Sacrifices and personal investments can be substantial and for the right things, they might feel worth it. But if you are staying out of obligation to your past sacrifices (work, time, money, fertility, etc...) it's a commitment to something that is no longer true for you. It's a sacrifice of the future out of an obligation to the past. #boundaries #healthyboundariesforkindpeople
I get to go back to work this week! I get to go back to work this week! Thank goodness for summers that are battery chargers for the spirit, and I get to go back to work this week!!!
So many kind people want to offer someone the chance to show they are different and that things have changed with them. The want to believe, and experience, what they hope is possible in the behavior of the other person. So, being so kind, they let the person show up with hopes that they'll take this opportunity and show the world how they've changed. They want to be the one who didn't give up on somebody and be a believer in them. And then they are crushed. Disappointed, sad, hurt, and possibly even abused. This is not to say that someone might not change. But here's the deal: the onus is on them to do so. You can still embrace, make space for, and welcome their change- if it happens. But you cannot pull it out of them, even when you know what else is possible for them. Dropping or abandoning your boundaries would be like not wearing warm clothes in the winter in hopes that it will suddenly warm up. If it warms up, great- then put on the right clothes for the weather. Dance like crazy and celebrate. You can still hope for it and want it, but going out into the blizzard, naked, will likely get you burned. Even when you hope for sunshine, you must dress for the weather.
 
 
 
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