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Find Your Truth and Be At Peace With It Randi Buckley
 
 
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From tricky to truth, and icky to ease...

We're going to sit down, I'm going to look into your eyes, and we're going to find the truth inside of you. We're going to do what it takes so you feel deep peace with it.  We're going to find your words so that it sings with the elegance, kindness, and fierceness of an anthem.  You are going to feel the embrace of acceptance, smell the scent of self-respect, and the taste of liberation.  You are going to be heard.  In me, you'll get intuition, unconventional wisdom, mischief, sacred space to be you, and new ways of honoring who you are. Then I'll probably fall in love with you, like your trusted big sister, your cool aunt, or the medicine woman who lives at the edge of the woods.  Welcome.  Learn, work with me, or come away with me.  Either way, welcome!

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Want to know the underlying challenge of the people you coach, teach, lead, or mentor?  IT'S BOUNDARIES. HEALTHY BOUNDARIES!  
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“Randi is grease for life’s wheels. When I don’t know what to do, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships, I call her. She has a way of making the dance of being human just a little more graceful. Healthy Boundaries for Kind People is part of her natural medicine for the world and I can’t recommend her highly enough.”

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HEALTHY BOUNDARIES

FOR COACHES AND FACILITATORS
 

 

Want to know the underlying challenge of the people you coach, teach, lead, or mentor?  

It's boundaries.  Healthy boundaries.

Are you working on this with your clients or those you teach, lead, or manage?

Think about it.  Everything starts and ends with boundaries. When we help to teach, support, and create healthy boundaries with our clients, our work has deeper and longer-lasting impact.  And even better... they thrive! 

Healthy Boundaries for Coaches and Facilitators by Randi Buckley
 
 
 
 
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I'm sourcing topic ideas for my new podcast, "Sideways Truth", which will be debuting in a couple of weeks. It's a solo act; me. I'm curious if you have topics you'd like me to take on for the show. And if you're new to my work, boundaries are a small fraction of it. It's about finding what's true for you and being at peace with it, through depth, beauty, context, nuance, and discernment, which could all be podcast episodes of their own. So, have any requests? You can put them here or go to the link via my bio, and also possibly win a t-shirt or poster.
Sometimes it's not until we have our boundaries in place, a definition and outline of who we are and the space we want to take and fill in the world, that the "right" opportunities, people, or situations come along. It's almost like a puzzle. Once we have our the us-sized shape and are clear on what that is, then we find the other pieces that fit next to and alongside us. And sometimes they just appear. Boundaries give the beautiful definition of who you are and become instructions for people to get the best version of you. People can then see who if/how they fit into your life. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #boundaries #healthyboundaries #mentor #truth #mentorcoach
We often look at our people pleasing and conflict avoidance as some sort of virtue that earns us a Badge of Honor. But it's not. It's a symptom of something that needs our attention and work, even though a Badge of Honor sounds like so much more fun and distracts us from the pain we hope to avoid by thinking we'er a good person and keeping an even keel. Sometimes it even feels like survival. But there's more to it and if you don't have the bandwidth to deal with what is going on beneath your stoic smile, that OK, just know that your people pleasing doesn't have to be indefinite and there is a way out of it even if you don't have that in you right now, you still have it in you and you are undoubtedly a good person nonetheless. Your conflict avoidance expertise is independent of that. Also, hi. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #healthyboundaries #boundaries #mentorcoach #truth #runonsentences
Wee reminder. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #healthyboundaries @boundaries
I understand that many humans are deeply concerned about being called or considered selfish, self-centered, or the like. To that, I say: so what? (If that feels too strong, let's try: "And...?") Like I mentioned on a recent call, there are things that get flung at women to put us in our place that tend to cut us off at the knees... and we seem to accept them. When someone want to shut us up, disagrees with us, wants to have some sort of leverage, what often happens is that we get told/shamed: - We're unattractive - We're bad mothers, or (as a student added) are non-nurturing. - We're selfish. - We're not nice. ALL because someone is not getting their way or doesn't want us to rock the boat. (Personally, I think when people have little solid argument, they go here in lieu of substance.) BUT as is often the case, we tend to believe them, and/or we think these things mean something, or think this matters. I see these things flung at super women like kryptonite. While we might not want to be or be perceived as any of these, is beside the point. While, it's probably not even the case, I want you to be able to ask yourself: So what? Just because someone says something, doesn't make it true. But more importantly, why does this matter to you? Not always, but fear of this perception imprisons many of us into staying stuck in a role, function, expectation, and in deep disappointment. These irrelevant, verbal molotav cocktails are meant to distract and cause a fire that derails us while we run to extinguish that perception. People say this stuff because they feel threatened. They fear change, they don't know where they will stand in your life if you start doing things differently, they don't know what the dynamic will be and or the buttons they know to push, for better or worse, will disappear. It gives them a sense of the moral upper hand that also serves to keep you down. Continued in comments. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #boundaries #healthyboundaries #mentor #truth #wistfullylookingintothedistance
I think this was my second-ever Twitter post in the early 1600s. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #healthyboundaries
When we're wrong (or make ourselves to feel wrong , i.e. "I must have done something wrong!" or "Well, it's my fault, really.") we're relieved of having to confront someone. We often make ourselves "wrong" so we can abdicate our personal responsibility in addressing someone else's behavior. We'd rather make ourselves wrong or at fault, than risk confrontation. If this rings true, instead of making yourself wrong, and inflicting the accompanying inner turmoil and pain, let's get better at confrontation. Let's change what you think it means and how you think it has to happen. Confrontation doesn't have to be a bad thing or be super scary. It's opening the door to what wants to happen. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #healthyboundaries #boundaries @peoplepleasing #mentorcoach #truth #whatthehellwithhashtags
It's been a surprise to me how much I want to do this and how excited I am about my new podcast, "Sideways Truth". I wholeheartedly was not going to do one, but something changed. If you have topics you'd like for me to chat about, let me know. Coming SOON!
I've got to share this one here because the popular belief that "you have to know what your boundaries are before you can have them" drives me shitty. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #healthyboundaries #boundaries
Not always, but sometimes. Like when we're blinded by "love and light". The work can be hard and sometimes it's not the right time for it. But I ask us to take a deep look and see if we're trying to rise above it all in an effort to actually avoid it. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #boundaries #healthyboundaries
Our self perception and sense of identity, often become our default user's manual to our lives. If something is not working for you, it might be worth looking at if you believe you are someone who can make such a thing work. Feel free to file under: Duh. But we often need this reminder that our beliefs don't have to become or remain our truth. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #boundaries #healthyboundaries #mentor #truth Also, #asilomar
Hey People Pleasers, Your job is not to fix everything. Your job is to live what you value and turn those values into verbs. #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #healthyboundaries #boundaries #peoplepleaser
 
 
 
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