A Membership Because
Boundaries are Not Won and Done.
Life is a river, ever-changing, and our boundary needs change along with it. That’s why a quick fix won’t work. It’s also why sustained, deep, long-term support is so potent in developing and maintaining deep rooted, effective boundaries. Boundaries are integral to our health, happiness, and wellbeing. You can’t separate them out from a happy life.
A membership allows you to commit and engage at a level that makes sense to you. When need to dip your toes in, I’m there to support you. When you want to take the full plunge, I’m there too. Whatever sort of support you need throughout your membership, we find a way to make that work.
There are seasons for focusing on your growth blossoming, and seasons to focus on making sure your roots go deep in nourishing soil. Instead of an intensive program that promotes quick growth, think of the membership as way to maintain and gently nourish your it.
The continued support you need to permanently shift the way you think about boundaries - by kind people, for kind people.
Monthly Charter Membership Pricing Until September 15th.
Us kind people, we tend to have a hard time with boundaries.
A really, really hard time. We can see it everywhere we look. Our friends, mothers, teachers, and of course, selves, whose hearts big and open, who give unlimited second chances, who carry the bad behavior or others on their shoulders, all while wanting to do the right thing.
Kind people fall into a trap. They think that boundaries are selfish. They think that they don’t even deserve boundaries. Kind people don’t want to turn their back on someone in need, they don’t want to close off. But they’re starting to feel suffocated. Like they’re about to burn out.
So they start to seek out traditional boundary setting advice. Harsh advice about standing your ground, saying no, building up walls to keep people out.
And it just. Doesn’t. Feel. Right.
It can be downright upsetting to not be able to follow through with your boundaries because they don’t feel authentic. Whether you’ve just started thinking about boundaries, or a long time pro still needing a cheerleader, sustained support in establishing and maintaining boundaries can be absolutely revolutionary.
I’m Randi Buckley, and this is the work I began in my course, Healthy Boundaries for Kind People. Today, I have guided participants and trained facilitators in this methodology that teaches what I believe is a fundamental truth: that setting good boundaries is an extension of your kindness.
I've worked with hundreds of women from around the globe, on finding their truth and making peace with it. I’ve designed courses for the likes of Deepak Chopra, The Omega Institute, and lots of other folks you know. My work is deep, transformational, fun, experiential, and are life-changing.
I don't have a high horse to get up on and am quite down to earth. You'll feel my presence and get deep and insightful support. All of my work revolves around finding your truth and being at peace with it, particularly in life’s stickiest situations and profound questions.
I live healthy boundaries for kind people every day.
However, as I’ve developed this work, what I’ve noticed is how our boundaries - much like are ourselves - are ever evolving. There’s always something new to gain from reengaging with the content - and refreshing that work is a crucial step to establish truly healthy boundaries.
What I’ve discovered is that many of us need a place where we can dip back in to get personal support when needed, a community to come back to as we’re learning how to navigate and nurture our boundaries. That’s why I’ve created…
This is the place where we hold space for one another.
Opening August 15th, 2017, the HBfKP Membership is the new home for my expanding boundaries work. Members can expect:
- Monthly Boundaries Workshop led by me
- Monthly Interview with an expert in a related field
- Two Monthly Office Hours (live group coaching) with me or one of my HBfKP Certified Coaches
- Discounts on all of my courses (including the Healthy Boundaries for Kind People Course).
- A dedicated membership community (NOT FACEBOOK)
- Continuous access to boundary support and new works
- We look at personal, professional (for a variety of sectors), business, leadership, online, familial, energetic, communicating, financial, parenting, and more boundaries. (See? It's everything!)
- Subject to change, to best support the members and their needs.
"This course has exceeded my expectations both in terms of the content and in the amount of personalized help I have received. It is truly a course for kind people; you will not be expected to change who you are to create and enforce boundaries. In fact, you are encouraged to get to know yourself and your values and provided with the support to do so. Participating online has allowed me to get great insight from Randi as well as belong to a community of like-minded individuals. Sometimes the universe sends you exactly what you need at exactly the right moment. That, for me, was Randi and this class."
- Jennifer Weibe
Healthy boundaries are like a fence around a garden of the things we cherish most.
And this membership is the collective of people who want to be able to maintain that fence effectively.
HBfKP Membership is the missing link for many of the kind people I work with daily - it’s the support you need for when your boundaries get nipped at or when you feel uncertain about how to navigate a tricky situation. It’s where you can come back to the watering hole for advice and the coaching you need that will support the work you’re doing daily.
"Where to start, when it comes to Randi? Well, I could speak of her calming presence, her grounded beingness. I could wax poetic about the breadth and depth of her knowledge across disciplines and the many threads she brings into all of the courses she offers. I could tell you about the brilliant tools she’s shared that have allowed me to have cleaner, kinder, more authentic conversations with folks.
But when it comes down to, I think that all of that aside, Randi lives what she teaches. And working with her, both in courses (Viking Women Workshop, HBfKP, HBfKP facilitator training), and one-on-one, is one of the best choices I’ve made. She is the real deal, and more, and I’m grateful for our work together."
- Monica Herald
Are you feeling the pull to this support but not sure how long you want to commit?
No worries. I've been there. You can cancel your monthly membership if you need to, with 15 days notice.
No questions asked. (I honor boundaries!)
"When I signed up for Randi's Healthy Boundaries for Kind People Coach & Facilitator Training I thought, "I have a pretty good grasp on boundaries...I practice and teach boundaries regularly. This training will be a nice supplement." And that is true.
But you know what? Randi's unique approach has deepened my understanding and practice of boundaries in ways I never imagined! While what I understood and taught before was certainly adequate, it was relatively shallow. What Randi has taught me will be invaluable to the work I do with adult daughters of "difficult" mothers because it includes a deep understanding of one's identity, which is something many daughters are missing. This training has also had a profound effect on me, personally. And that is the hallmark of a program that truly works: when I learn by doing I am able to live the learning and that's the most powerful kind! Randi is a living, breathing example of what is possible! Let her show you the way."
- Karen C.L. Anderson
Sorry gents, this is for female-identifying, only. (You guys need this, too! I’m just not your woman for it, right now.)
You have to be kind, or really value kindness. Otherwise, you won’t like this at all.
This is not for folks who are better served by working with a psychotherapist right now, nor is it a substitute for medical or mental health care. The last thing someone who is dealing with this needs is to feel turned away. Rather, please use this as a turn toward the best path for you. You can do this program in tandem with professional mental health support with the written support of your mental health professional. I want you to be in the best hands for where you are at right now. If you have questions, please click here to contact me. And seriously, a lot of us have been there and it can and will get better. I wish you great healing.
My Healthy Boundaries for this Journey
Tuition for HBfKP Membership is non-refundable. Please be ready to do some good, and deep, work.
I don't do "guarantees". Here's why: I encourage, and help you, apply this work and the learning to your specific needs and customize it in ways that work for you. Everyone comes to this work with different life experience and you will need to make it your own. Telling you exactly what will happen for you, and forcing your hand in order to meet an arbitrary guarantee, isn't how I do my work, nor how I want you to do yours. What I promise is that I show up, and deliver, a course I am wildly proud of because it has helped so many women in profound and life-altering ways. And... you have to do your part in doing the deep work and applying it in ways that work for you.
I expect, hold, and require respect for each member, their views, and their boundary journey.
You can expect humor, compassion, a request and honoring of confidentiality, non-judgment, language of the gut (not always for delicate ears), and always, always… kindness.
I’m so excited to join you on your journey then.
Sign up for the HBfKP Membership down below.
Life Coach, Thought Wrangler, Author
"After a few years of contact over the interwebs, Randi and I spent a couple of days together and travelled through the magic of Big Sur. Maya Angelou said that you can tell a lot about a person by the way she handles a rainy day, lost luggage and tangled Christmas tree lights. Can I add to the list: a road trip with a tired small person and a soundtrack involving ‘five little monkey’s’ on repeat?!
As online, in person Randi is patience, kindness, wisdom and love. She has such a deep and quiet calm, combined with a quick wit suffused with the dirtiest laugh. She quickly gets to the truth and heart of matters.
Randi is the real deal. She is as mighty as a Californian redwood and as vivid as the orange wild poppies that edge Highway 1. I just love her."
Teacher, Writer, Pathfinder, Coach
"I'm having a hard time putting into words what the coaching meant to me. Nonetheless, I want to share it, even if the words fall short of the truth. Well, it turns out that Randi is the real deal. Seriously? I think she's part magician. Or at least mystic. It wasn't very long into our conversation that she started voicing things that she picked up in my words and energy that were so dead on they were scary.
And with only a few well placed questions, she had me digging into demons, identifying the places where I deal with 'imposter syndrome' and voicing big crazy dreams I'd never dared whisper to anyone."
RACHEL W COLE
Coach, Author, Well-fed Woman
"Randi is grease for life's wheels. When I don't know what to do, especially when it comes to interpersonal relationships, I call her. She has a way of making the dance of being human just a little more graceful. Healthy Boundaries for Kind People is part of her natural medicine for the world, and I can't recommend her highly enough."
ERIKA HINES, JD
Attorney, Social Change Diva
"When you meet Randi, you will crack wide open. Your gut and your heart tell you to trust her with your thoughts and your ideas. She exudes that 'sense' of caring and deep knowledge that other people say that they have. But Randi has it in deuces and spades. People are very lucky to work with her because she combines practical intelligence with social genius."
"Randi didn't just hold my hand. She held my heart. Really. Let me back up.
In my heart has lived a program. For a very long time, it rested there. From time to time I would whisper "are you ready to come out yet?" and it would stubbornly refuse, preferring the warmth and safety of the womb in which it contentedly ensconced. Yes, it was happy there, but in equal measures, so too was it terrified to come out. And I'll admit, I was a little afraid too. Would anyone love it beyond me? What would it look like? Would it matter to anyone? Would it make a difference? Would it survive?
I brought my heavy heart to Randi. She held it, looked inside, smiled and whispered some of her magic. Then she turned to me, whispered some more of her magic and out flowed my program. Beautiful. Powerful. Smart. Important. Valued. Cherished. Revolutionary.
So yeah, Randi held my heart. And out came the program I've been dreaming of."
Republic of Freedom
“When I saw the opportunity to work one-on-one with Randi to develop my digital workshop, I didn’t hesitate for a second. This woman radiates practical knowledge and deep-rooted wisdom. Needless to say, I was not disappointed! Randi provided the exact direction that I needed- regularly checking in with me about what pieces were still missing, and offering a mix of suggestions that were a great fit for the experience I am developing in this workshop.
What I especially appreciated is that Randi brings her whole self to the process- she thinks about your work and your vision in the in-between times and the benefits of this are manifold. I learned SO much from working with her and it felt rather effortless! She’s like a course-development angel. Just hire her.”