"Yes" Is Not a Standard Equation
Knowing something is right for you 'with every fiber of your being' is not an option for all folks when it comes to big ol' life decisions. Our personal equation for 'yes' might include some doubt. That doesn't mean you want something any less than someone who absolutely knows they want it, it just means that's what 'yes' looks like to you. We think 'yes' or a desire is supposed to feel a certain way but this gets in the way of knowing what we feel. The expectation of what something should feel like, or that others seem to feel or know something differently than we do, makes us question our desire.