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What People Have To Say About Working With Me
“My experience in the Difficult Conversations Workshop was a life-saver. I was so well prepared for my difficult conversation, my anxiety dropped and I could be more present. For the first time in a long time I could speak my truth. I had less fear, more confidence and felt like I was being heard. Randi’s Difficult Conversations workshop was beyond what I thought was possible. I’m in a better place and feel more peace. It was like having Randi hold my hand through the entire process.”
Jen Beck, Palo Alto, CA
“Randi, your Difficult Conversations Workshop helped me through a number of situations in my life. And n”ot only that, I was able to share some of the insights with my co-workers and it worked for them, too.
At one point during the workshop it clicked and I instantly knew how to stay on top of these kind of situations. Everything after that was easy. In the weeks after the workshop people asked me several times how I manage to stay relaxed and yet in control in dealing with difficult people.
What I remember most from the workshop is not the content – being an academic I can easily get information about communication strategies – but a certain feeling. It was the idea that it is MY decision to be in control.
I came to the workshop with a specific problem to solve – I was afraid that a certain person would try to boss me around and not treat me respectfully (which had happened several times before). Afterwards the strangest thing happened: everything changed! The more I used things from the workshop, the more she admired my work. She’s still not my best friend – and will probably never be – but it was amazing how much control I had over the situation and even over her (and that’s almost scary). ”
Stefanie Seewald
Leuphana University of Lueneburg, Germany
“We have discovered a new awareness and appreciation for each other and are back to behaving as a team. We have come to understand each other on a deeper level, and are better able to deal with conflicts gently and respectfully. So many roadblocks were effortlessly removed so that we could focus on our joint dreams and make them a reality. We found that the simple act of meeting with Randi and making the commitment to show up and participate had a powerful and positive effect on our feelings for each other; a tune up and recalibration for our relationship. Randi does a beautiful job of tapping in to her intuitiveness and translating the information for us as well as leaving space for spontaneous work that comes up.”
L. L., Artist and Toymaker, Pacific Grove, CA
“Since working with Randi I have more confidence in taking risks associated with my life. I realize that the challenges I perceive as challenges are only there because I allow them to be there. I get in my own way due to fear or self doubt which is usually related to not wanting to embarrass myself or others. Not wanting to fail or be rejected! I now feel that my possibilities are endless in life. Randi helped me see other avenues and options that I could walk through that were often easier.
I now hold the perspective that conflict and controversy are important life lessons and present themselves for our own understanding and learning. Often failure and rejection are moments in which we get to redefine ourselves. Randi has coached me to face conflict when I feel as though my values and ethics are being harmed.”
M. D., College Administrator, Los Gatos, CA
“I see ME more clearly. I am able to ask if what I’m doing is really who I want to be or what message about myself am I giving others. Is it an accurate portrayal of me or am I not being true to myself. WOW!
Sometimes, when life gets you down and it’s hard to pick yourself up, you need help putting your best foot forward. Randi helps you do that while still maintaining “who you are”. She encourages you while challenging you to go outside your comfort zone to become the BEST you that you can be.
I didn’t think there was much of a future for me being by myself. I didn’t think that I could be alone without being lonely. I now know that I am ok with being me. You have truly helped me changed my life and helped me see my potential for a future. I thank you from the bottom of my soul.”
S.L., Lakeland, FL
“I was completely surprised that I was being coached! I would say that coaching fits your natural talents extremely well! The continuous positive energy made me feel like I am doing the right thing, or am at least headed in the right direction.
I have been able to relate different facets of my life to each other in a way that shows similarities that I think ultimately show my true desires in life. I feel more comfortable with the person I want myself to be rather than feeling like I need to be what other people want from me.”
E.M. Psychiatric Nurse, St. Paul, MN
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